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Ask a Redhead: Should Redheads Wear Brown Mascara?

Spoiler Alert: YES!

Every week, we put out a call for your redhead questions. This gives you a chance to get advice or input from our team of redheads. From beauty and fashion to lifestyle, redheads are in a unique boat, and we want to help make this community a place where you can turn for all your redhead needs

This week, we’re answering the question: “Should redheads wear brown mascara?” A redhead on social media shared how a friend suggested that brown mascara might be more flattering, but they weren’t sure what color to rock with their red hair. For most redheads, mascara is an integral part of their makeup routines. Light-colored eyelashes can make them seem invisible, but mascara can help define and lengthen the lashes.

Brown vs. black mascara

The two most common mascara colors are black and brown. These shades can be found in almost any drugstore nationwide and are standard for mascara brands. For redheads, the decision between the two might be confusing. Neither black nor brown matches our hair, so which one do we choose? The redhead who wrote in was told that brown may be more flattering on them, and that can be true! Redheads often have a unique complexion and hair color that can be better enhanced with brown mascara instead of black. Here’s why brown mascara might be an excellent choice for you:

  1. Subtle Contrast: Brown mascara offers a softer contrast against red hair and fair skin compared to the starkness of black. This can create a more natural, harmonious look that complements the warmth of red hair.
  2. Warmth and Depth: Brown mascara tends to blend well with the warm tones of red hair, creating a more cohesive and flattering appearance. It can add depth to your lashes without overwhelming your features.
  3. Natural Look: Brown mascara can be a great option for a more understated or natural makeup look. It enhances your lashes without being too bold or dramatic.
  4. Highlighting Natural Color: Brown mascara can highlight and complement the natural hues in red hair, allowing for a more balanced and complementary look.
  5. Daytime Wear: Brown mascara can be more appropriate and less intense for daytime or casual looks than black. It’s also great for a more relaxed, everyday makeup routine.

Brown is usually much softer and more natural-looking for those with red hair and fair features. That being said, if you love wearing black mascara, you don’t have to wear brown. It’s all about personal preference! If you are considering opting for a brown shade, you have options.

How redheads can choose their shade:  

For years, the only brown mascara options were brown-black and standard brown. These shades are usually relatively dark and more on the cool-toned side of the color spectrum. Now, redheads have their own mascara, which gives you more options. Finally Have Lashes® redhead mascara comes in five shades.

Our mascara line also comes in two different brush shapes. Want to learn more? Redhead Mascara Brushes: A Guide To The Different Shapes In Our Line

RED-Y for Lashes, Perfectly Auburn: Our Perfectly Auburn shade is a true ginger color and an excellent match for natural-looking lashes. It is designed to match your red hair and give you that “no makeup makeup” look. The custom shade is timeless, leaving you wondering, “Where has this been my whole life?”

RED-Y for Lashes, Perfectly Auburn

Fall In Love With Your Red Hair, Perfectly Chestnut: Our Perfectly Chestnut shade is slightly darker and more of a warm medium brown tone. This shade is inspired by the beauty of autumn. Fall in love with your red hair when you rock this custom chestnut shade. It’s deeper than Perfectly Auburn but lighter than Perfectly Brown.

Fall In Love With Your Red Hair, Perfectly Chestnut

Brown with a Splash of Red, Perfectly Brown: This shade is designed to be a “true brown” shade, so we added a splash of red to complement redheads. It’s a rouge-inspired brown that is lighter than a traditional black but dark enough to give your eyes a pop.  

Brown with a Splash of Red, Perfectly Brown

Redhead Royalty®, Perfectly Plum: We also have Perfectly Plum, a rich berry purple with red undertones that is ultra-flattering and unique! This shade is designed to make you feel like true Redhead Royalty®. The custom berry shade is rich, subtle, and regal.

Redhead Royalty®, Perfectly Plum

A Full 180, Perfectly Black: This is for redheads who love black mascara. The clean formula is sensitive-friendly, vegan, and cruelty-free.

A Full 180, Perfectly Black

Pairing your mascara with your look

With our various shades of mascara, redheads can find their perfect look for any occasion. Auburn and chestnut will provide the right amount of color to your light lashes for a more natural look. For more definition but an everyday wear, brown blends seamlessly with our fair skin tone and warm hair color. Plum provides a perfect pop of color to make your lashes stand out, and black is perfect for a tried-and-true makeup look. No matter what shade, redheads can rock any shade of mascara

Want your redhead question answered? Find us @howtobearedhead on Instagram and Facebook, and look for the Ask a Redhead question box.

Rock it like a Redhead!

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6 Super Unique Facts About Redheads You Might Not Know

You might not have heard of these before...

Redheads are fascinating people with many unique traits that most people don’t know about. One of the best parts of being a redhead is discovering that a trait you may have thought was unique to you is shared by redheads worldwide. Finding ways to connect and fit in with your fellow redheads is helpful when you’re part of a group that makes up less than 2% of the population. 

1. Did you know that ginger beards are more common than men with red hair?

The genetics behind red hair and red beards are complicated but fascinating. Those with red hair need both parents to have the redhead gene. The gene responsible for red hair is called MC1R. It is a recessive gene, meaning you need two copies (one from each parent) to have red hair. For someone to have a red beard, their parents must only carry one copy of this gene, which is why some men have red beards but don’t have red hair. 

However, beard color can be influenced by various factors, including different genetic combinations and interactions. For example, a man might inherit the red hair gene in a way that only affects his beard, not his head hair. So, ginger beards can appear more frequently than complete redhead individuals because the genetic requirements for a red beard are less stringent.

2. Did you know that green eyes & red hair are one of the rarest combinations in history?

While not the rarest combination, green eyes and red hair are particularly unique and uncommon due to the small population with either of these traits. Redheads and people with green eyes each make up less than 2% of the world’s population. The genetic factors required for both traits to occur together are even more rare, making this combination a stunning and infrequent sight. Redheads with green eyes are so rare that they capture significant interest in genetic studies and popular culture, often being seen as embodying an incredibly rare, unique, and striking appearance.

3. Did you know that freckles develop due to sun exposure?

Humans are not born with freckles. However, we are born with a gene to produce freckles, and some people’s likelihood of producing freckles is higher because of their genetic makeup.

It’s a common misconception that freckles are a result of sun damage. Freckles result from the way our skin responds to ultraviolet (UV) light rather than from direct sunlight. When exposed to the sun, cells in the skin called melanocytes produce more melanin, the pigment responsible for skin color. In individuals with a genetic predisposition to freckles, this increased melanin is distributed in small, concentrated spots, leading to the appearance of freckles. While freckles are not harmful or indicate skin damage, protecting your skin from excessive sun exposure is still essential to prevent other types of UV-related damage, such as sunburn or an increased risk of skin cancer.

4. Did you know that red hair is thicker than other hair colors?

Each strand of red hair is generally thicker than other shades of hair. This compensates for the fact that redheads have fewer strands of hair on average. Redheads average around 90k strands, while blondes average 110k, and brunettes average 140k. 

Interestingly, the thicker strands of red hair contribute to its distinctive texture and appearance. This increased thickness can make red hair look fuller and more robust despite having fewer strands. Additionally, the density and thickness of red hair can affect how it reflects light, often giving it a vibrant, shimmering quality that highlights its unique hue.

5. Did you know natural redheads usually have some wave or curl pattern?

Red hair results from a genetic mutation in the MC1R gene. This gene is responsible for hair color and also affects the structure of hair follicles

This genetic mutation in the MC1R gene doesn’t just influence color but also impacts the shape and texture of the hair follicles. As a result, red hair often has a unique wave or curl pattern that distinguishes it from other hair colors. The interaction between the gene’s effects on pigmentation and follicle shape contributes to the characteristic texture of many redheads, giving their hair a distinctive, often naturally wavy or curly quality.

6. Did you know that it’s common for redheads to have a blonde streak at the nape of their neck?

This streak is usually distinct in color and apparent from birth. This blonde streak at the nape of the neck is often due to a combination of genetics and the way pigmentation develops. While red hair results from a specific genetic mutation affecting melanin production, the hair in this area might have a different level of pigmentation or reflect light differently. This natural phenomenon can create a noticeable contrast between the red hair and the blonde streak, highlighting the unique genetic variations found in redheads.

Rock it like a Redhead!

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Redheads Weigh In on Blake Lively’s Hair in ‘It Ends With Us’ 

Should natural redheads get specific roles because of their hair color?

It Ends With Us is a film adaptation of a Colleen Hoover book by the same name. The story is a dramatic romance in which the main character is Lily Bloom, a redheaded flower shop owner. We got a sneak peek of the movie and Lily’s character, played by Blake Lively, in early 2023 when Lively posted a photo of her with red hair to her Instagram story. At the time, we noted how excited we were to see Lively in this role and for her to reprise her red, which she had rocked in the past. 

The film dropped in early August and is one of the year’s most anticipated films, but redheads have some thoughts and a bit of a disappointment. For some redheads, the frustration came because Lily’s hair was described as vibrantly red in the book, and in most scenes, Lively’s hair is more of a strawberry blonde. However, the actress Isabela Ferrer, who plays young Lily Bloom, does seem to have a more true red hair shade. 

Other redheads had different grievances with the casting. TikToker @faithieeanne spoke out about her feelings in a TikTok video. Faith says “I was absolutely treated differently my whole childhood, my whole life, for being a redhead. Not in the way people that have different races are, obviously, but in the way that I’m fetishized, bullied…because of my hair color, so it has set me apart.” Chosen redheads in the film play both the teenage and adult versions of Lily Bloom. Faith explains how she gets frustrated when she sees roles that call for a natural redhead being given to redheads ‘by choice.’ She talks about how the redhead experience impacted her life and how, in the book version, Lily experiences some of these same things.

Many people in Faith’s comments agree, with some saying a natural redhead like Sadie Sink should have played the role and some sharing how their redhead experience has shaped them. Some even say they felt like they were the only ones bothered by the casting of non-redheads for redhead roles. Check out Faith’s video here: 

@faithieeanne

Pls dont take this too seriosuly

♬ original sound – Faith 🦋

Here at H2BAR, we would love to see more redheads in the industry get more redhead roles. Although, some of our favorite redhead characters are played by non-redheads. These roles often require extensive hair and makeup transformations to achieve the look of the character’s signature red hair. Here are some notable examples:

1. Ginger Grant in Gilligan’s Island: Originally played by Tina Louise, Ginger Grant is a glamorous movie star known for her red hair. Tina Louise is not a natural redhead.

2.  Jessica Rabbit in Who Framed Roger Rabbit: Voiced by Kathleen Turner, Jessica Rabbit is a classic cartoon character known for her striking red hair. While iconic in her own right, Kathleen Turner is not a redhead.

3. Mary Jane Watson in Spider-Man (2002): Played by Kirsten Dunst, Mary Jane Watson is a redhead in the comic books. Dunst is naturally blonde.

4. Daphne Blake in Scooby-Doo: Played by Sarah Michelle Gellar in the live-action films, Daphne Blake is another redhead from the cartoons. Gellar is naturally blonde.

5. Jean Grey in the X-Men series: Famke Janssen played Jean Grey, a character with red hair in the comics. Janssen, however, is a natural brunette.

6. Anastasia Steele in Fifty Shades of Grey: The character Anastasia Steele is described as having red hair in the books, but Dakota Johnson, who played her, is a brunette.

7. Rita Hayworth in Gilda: Rita Hayworth, known for her red hair in the film, was naturally a brunette.

8. Anne Shirley in Anne of Green Gables (1985 TV miniseries):  Megan Follows played Anne Shirley, a character with famously red hair. Although Follows’ hair is not naturally red, she wore a red wig for the role.

What do you think about this? Should natural redheads get specific roles because of their hair color?

Rock it like a Redhead!

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H2BAR Model Series: Meet the Redheads – Part 1

Meet the new faces you'll see across H2BAR platforms! Real redheads, real interviews:

If you’ve been following along on social media, you may know we are rebranding and did a big photo shoot in the Hamptons in June. We had a group of amazing redheads join us as our new models. We interviewed each model, asking questions about their redhead experience. Join us on Instagram and TikTok @howtobearedhead to see a new weekly video! Not caught up? Here’s what you missed:

“How do you feel about the term ‘ginger’?”

Having so many redheads in one place means we can get various answers. We kicked things off with one that might start a little debate. The term ginger can be pretty controversial for some redheads. Some people love it, and some hate it. With the launch of our new “Ginger” sweatshirts, we had to ask: 

“What is your favorite color to rock with your red hair?”

One thing redheads can agree on is the answer to this next question! We asked all the redheads

Now, let’s meet the models themselves:

Matthew Duane: @matthew.duane

Meet Matthew (they/them) and hear about having sensitive skin, skincare with a beard, and their advice for younger redheads.

Paola: @uhhpaola

Meet Paola (she/her), whose favorite redhead trait is her freckles, even though they got her teased when she was younger. 

Karie: @iowaredheadadventures

Meet Karie (she/her) and hear how her perspective on being a redhead has changed over the years.

Emily Morrison: @emilymmorrison

Meet Emily (she/her), the strawberry blonde with an inspiring story and some excellent advice for the new generation of redheads.

Josh

Meet Josh (he/him), who is Adrienne’s (H2BAR co-founder) husband! Learn which H2BAR product is his favorite:

Rock it like a Redhead!

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Ask a Redhead: Should My Brows Match My Red Hair? 

Do You Have Light Brows?

Every week, we put out a call for your redhead questions. This gives you a chance to get advice or input from our team of redheads. From beauty and fashion to lifestyle, redheads are in a unique boat, and we want to help make this community a place where you can turn for all your redhead needs. 

This week, we’re talking about redheads and eyebrow color! We were asked on Instagram, “Should my brows match my red hair? I have them tinted darker, but I’m unsure if they should match.” It’s common for redheads’ natural brows not to match their hair color, so let’s talk about it! 

Brow advice for redheads

Usually, redheads have light reddish blonde eyebrows that are lighter than their red hair, but some have naturally dark brows. Many redheads with light brows want to help accentuate the brow and frame the face. If you’re wondering how your brows should look, there’s no hard and fast rule.

First, It’s all a matter of personal preference. It all depends on how defined you like your brows to be. 

For our tips, we recommend finding the most natural look. You should aim for your brows to be one shade lighter than your natural hair color.

If you want to do a brow tint and have something more permanent, most brow tints are made for blondes and brunettes, meaning your brows won’t have a reddish hue. We love using redhead-specific brow products from the How to be a Redhead Finally Have Brows line to help get the perfect color

Finally Have Brows®

Lash advice for redheads

Although this week’s Ask a Redhead question asked explicitly about brow color, redheads often ask this same question about lash color. When it comes to eyelashes, mascara is the best way to define the lashes. Black is the most common mascara color, and while redheads can rock a black mascara, some may find it too dark for their liking. We love our Finally Have Lashes Enhancing mascara line in various custom redhead shades. They will darken light lashes while still looking natural and giving you a color closer to your red hair color

Finally Have Lashes®

Want your redhead question answered? Find us @howtobearedhead on Instagram and Facebook, and look for the Ask a Redhead question box!

Rock it like a Redhead!

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H2BAR Podcast: Jess King, Peloton Instructor Talks About Her Life Journey as a Redhead

Redhead, Fitness Instructor, Icon!

Redheads, this might be one of our most exciting episodes yet. If you love fitness, you will probably know our next guest. This week, Adrienne and Stephanie are talking to Jess King. This is a can’t-miss conversation in which you will learn the power of saying “yes” and feel inspired to conquer life. With over 500k Instagram followers, Jess is a redhead fitness icon. 

Jess King is a Peloton instructor known for her high-energy and motivational workouts. She is known for her dynamic personality, innovative workout routines, and focus on inclusivity and empowerment. Jess King’s classes often feature a combination of cycling, strength training, and mindfulness exercises designed to physically and mentally challenge participants. Jess was named “Best Peloton Instructor For Epic Playlists” by PopSugar and “Best Peloton Instructor for Getting Real” by Shape Magazine

Before joining Peloton, Jess King had a background in dance, fitness, and performance. Her classes are characterized by their unique choreography, uplifting playlists, and motivational coaching style. Jess is also known for advocating diversity, body positivity, and mental health awareness within the fitness community.

As a Peloton instructor, Jess King has gained a dedicated following of riders who appreciate her infectious enthusiasm, creative workouts, and empowering message. She inspires and motivates Peloton members worldwide through her live and on-demand classes and DJing skills.

Follow Jess on Instagram and TikTok

Listen wherever you listen to podcasts, and you can now stream every episode weekly on YouTube! Click here to watch this episode’s interview on our channel.

Head to How to be a Redhead’s Instagram and TikTok to see sneak peeks of this episode!

Want to be an H2BAR Brand Ambassador? Click here to apply now and claim your FREE welcome kit.

Want to help us spread the news about the How to be a Redhead brand and this podcast? Please give us a 5-star review and tell your friends (redheads and everyone else) to subscribe! You can listen to this podcast directly on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to podcasts.

See you next week, redheads!

Sending Red Wishes, Adrienne + Stephanie

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The Best Facial Hair Razors and Shaving Cream For Sensitive Redheads

Plus, we give you tips on how to use different hair removal options!

For redheads with facial hair, facial irritation from shaving can be a big concern. Redheads often have sensitive skin to worry about and may also be prone to ingrown hairs and razor burns. Finding the correct products can help give you a closer shave without redness and irritation. Here are some of our top products for removing redhead facial hair. 

1. Best tips when using disposable & refillable razors:

Usually, the most popular option for facial shaving is disposable or refillable razors. Disposable razors are the ones you throw out after a couple of uses, and refillable razors are the ones where you swap out the blade every few uses and keep the same handle. These razors need to be used with a shaving cream or gel. 

Ultimately, choosing between disposable and refillable razors will depend on personal preference and skin sensitivity. It might be worth experimenting with both to see which minimizes irritation and provides a comfortable shave.

Pros:

  1. Convenience: Disposable razors are ready to use right out of the package and don’t require additional purchases like razor blades.
  2. Cost-Effective: Generally cheaper upfront, which can be beneficial if you’re looking for a low-cost option.
  3. Hygiene: Single-use razors can help avoid bacteria buildup that can occur with older, less maintained razors.

Cons:

  1. Less Customizable: They usually have fewer features or adjustments compared to refillable razors, which can affect the comfort and closeness of the shave.
  2. Environmental Impact: Disposable razors contribute to waste and aren’t as eco-friendly as refillable options.
  3. Frequent Replacement: They need to be replaced more often, which can add up over time and may not be as cost-effective in the long run.

Preserve POPi Shave 5 Razor System: $13

2. Best tips when using electric razors

Another excellent option for those with sensitive skin is an electric razor. This can help reduce irritation from shaving and ingrown hairs on the face. Electric razors can be an excellent choice to minimize irritation and invest in a higher upfront cost.

Pros:

  1. Reduced Irritation: They often minimize direct skin contact, reducing the risk of irritation and razor burn.
  2. Convenience: Electric razors are quick and easy to use, and many models are designed for wet and dry shaving.
  3. Less Frequent Replacements: The blades usually last longer, so you won’t need to replace them as often as with disposable or refillable razors.

Cons:

  1. Initial Cost: They can be expensive upfront compared to manual razors.
  2. Shaving Quality: Some users find that electric razors don’t provide as close a shave as traditional razors.
  3. Maintenance: Regular cleaning and occasional blade replacements are necessary to maintain performance and hygiene.

Braun Electric Series 3 Razor with Precision Trimmer: $60

3. Best tips when using shaving cream: 

To pair with your disposable or refillable razor, you need a good shaving cream. Many shaving creams can be fragranced or harsh on sensitive skin. You want something that is sensitive skin-safe, won’t dry you out, and will help to nourish the skin while you shave. 

Redheads with sensitive skin should look for shaving creams that are gentle and hydrating. Here are some tips:

  1. Choose a Fragrance-Free Option: Fragrance-free creams are less likely to irritate.
  2. Look for Soothing Ingredients: Ingredients like aloe vera, chamomile, or calendula can help calm sensitive skin.
  3. Opt for Hydrating Formulas: Creams with moisturizing elements, such as glycerin or shea butter, provide a protective barrier and help prevent dryness.
  4. Avoid Harsh Chemicals: Avoid creams containing alcohol, parabens, or sulfates, which can be irritating.
  5. Test a Patch: Always do a patch test before full use to ensure no adverse reaction.

Choosing a shaving cream that meets these criteria can help minimize irritation and achieve a smoother shave.

Proraso Sensitive Skin Shaving Foam: $9

4. Best tips for redheads with sensitive skin when it comes to hair removal:

  1. Choose a Razor with Fewer Blades: Sometimes, fewer blades can reduce irritation. A single or double-blade razor might work better than a multi-blade option.
  2. Opt for Soothing Ingredients: Look for razors with built-in lubricating strips containing aloe or vitamin E, which can soothe sensitive skin.
  3. Use a Shaving Cream or Gel: A high-quality shaving cream or gel can provide a protective barrier and reduce friction.
  4. Shave After a Warm Shower: Warm water can help soften hair and open pores, making shaving smoother.
  5. Consider Electric Razors: For some, electric razors with gentle settings can be an excellent alternative to traditional razors, reducing direct blade contact with the skin.

Rock it like a Redhead! 

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H2BAR Podcast: Alexina Graham, First Redhead To Walk The VS Fashion Show

Alexina proves that red hair is beautiful and we can do anything

Redhead representation is huge! It’s important for redheads of all ages to see themselves represented globally. The next guest on the How to be a Redhead podcast is the first natural redhead to walk the Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show runway. Confidence is a massive part of the redhead experience, with many redheads struggling to love their red hair despite bullying, teasing, and stereotypes. That’s why having a natural redhead on the runway is so empowering. It shows that red hair is beautiful and we can do anything.

Alexina Graham started her modeling career at age 17 and has been in the industry for over 15 years. She has graced many high fashion runways from Jean Paul Gaultier to Balmain to Amani and has graced the covers of Elle, Marie Claire, Harper’s Bazaar, and more. Alexina had her major break when she became an international spokesmodel for L’Oreal Paris in 2016, which was one of her fondest moments in the industry. Then, in 2018, she went on to walk the Victoria’s Secret runway and became a Victoria’s Secret angel shortly after. 

Fast-forward through a pandemic, battling her inner demons, and being a support system for her family—she is now on a new, exciting path in the world of spirituality. 

TRIGGER WARNING: This episode talks about suicide and mental health. If you or someone you know is experiencing suicidal thoughts or a crisis, please reach out immediately to the Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-8255 or text HOME to the Crisis Text Line at 741741. These services are free and confidential.

Listen wherever you listen to podcasts, and you can now stream every episode weekly on YouTube! Click here to watch this episode’s interview on our channel. And, follow Alexina on Instagram and TikTok

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Reddit Thread: Why Does Everyone Want To Touch My Red Hair?

Things to say to make it stop if you are ever in this situation

Redheads experience many unique things in life. Unfortunately, not all of these experiences are positive ones. If there is one common redhead experience we wish we could stop, it would be strangers touching our red hair. We know getting comments about the rarity of our hair color can be flattering, but some people forget about boundaries and want to feel/grab red hair when they see it. One parent of a redheaded child wrote about this exact experience on Reddit.

The parent wrote, “My 8-year-old daughter has red hair, leaning more toward auburn. She’s never cut it. We call it the ‘Long Hair Don’t Care’ club cause mine is pretty long, too. Her’s, though, is so long she has to pull it out from under her when she sits. She LOVES her hair. So do her father and I. Every redhead knows that people will always try to touch it in public- mostly older white ladies.”

The mom goes on to explain how an older woman in the grocery store reached out to touch her daughter’s hair. The daughter verbally told her, “Don’t touch me!” But it seems the message was not received. The stranger found the child again and ran her hand down her red ponytail. The child and the parent both had some choice words for this woman, and the little redhead even told the stranger she would “bite her” if she did it again.

The people of Reddit loved this post, and many chimed in with their own stories. Many people with curly hair had similar experiences, and even a few redheads shared that they, too, had been touched in public. Here are some of our favorite comments: 

As I redhead, I know this first hand. What is wrong with people!!!! Please stop trying to pet us!! Your daughter is amazing. I’m due next month, and if my girl has red hair, I hope she’s as feisty as yours!”

“As a redhead that’s been touched by strangers ALL THE TIME, thank you!!! You’re an amazing mom, and she’s lucky to have someone teaching her boundaries!”

“Redhead here who once had some woman sneak up behind me and cut off some of my hair so her “stylist could match it.” I was ten years old, and my mom did nothing. I wonder where my difficulty setting boundaries comes from. We will never know. It’s a mystery. But seriously OP, good for you for sticking up for your baby. I hate people like that.”

This isn’t an isolated instance, and we’re sure many redheads and parents of redhead kids have similar stories. The moral here? Please keep your hands to yourself; our rare hair isn’t there for your enjoyment. It’s part of our bodies, and it’s demeaning and violating to touch us without consent. 

Looking for ways to respond to people who want to touch your hair?

Here are some responses or actions:

  1. “I’d rather you not touch my hair, but thank you for asking.”
  2. “I’m not comfortable with people touching my hair.”
  3. Politely step back and say, “Please respect my personal space.”
  4. Offer a smile and say, “I appreciate the interest, but I prefer to keep my hair untouched.”
  5. Use humor: “My hair’s not a petting zoo, but thanks for asking!”
  6. Calmly explain, “I like to keep my hair personal. I hope you understand.”
  7. say, “No touching, please,” and move away if necessary.
  8. “I’m a bit particular about my hair, so I’d prefer if you didn’t touch it.”
  9. “I’m susceptible about my hair, so I’d appreciate it if you could keep your hands to yourself.”
  10. “Touching my hair isn’t something I’m comfortable with. Thanks for understanding.”
  11. “I know my hair is unique, but I’d rather it not be touched.”
  12. “I’m glad you like my hair, but please don’t touch it.”
  13. “I value my personal space, so I’d rather you didn’t touch my hair.”
  14. “My hair’s a bit personal, so I’d prefer it if you didn’t touch it.”
  15. “I get that it’s fascinating, but I’d appreciate it if you didn’t touch my hair.”
  16. Politely but firmly mention, “I’ve had people touch my hair before, and it’s something I’d like to avoid.”
  17. “I’d prefer if you didn’t touch my hair. Thanks for respecting that.”
  18. “I’m going to step away now. Thanks for understanding.”

Rock it like a Redhead!

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How Redheads Can Rock: Bronzer

Add Warmth and Dimension to Your Makeup Look

For redheads getting into makeup, staying within the “neutral” boxes and following some of the outdated makeup guidelines you’ll see online can be tempting. We want redheads to understand that you can rock anything! Like our How to Wear series, we’ve started the “How to Rock” series focusing on makeup trends, unique makeup, and even the makeup styles that redheads are told not to wear. This time, we’re talking about rocking bronzer.

Lots of redheads have a complicated relationship with bronzer. You want that sun-kissed glow but don’t want your hair and skin to look the same color. Bronzer isn’t one size fits all; as redheads, we must learn what shades work for us, where to apply them, and how to avoid looking too tan, especially if we have fair skin. Don’t worry; we’ve got some tips for redheads who want to learn how to rock a little bronzer. 

Picking the right bronzer

The key to a good bronzer look is having the right shade for your skin tone. For redheads, this may vary depending on how fair you are. Usually, a good rule of thumb is to opt for a bronzer that is anywhere from 1 to 4 shades darker than your skin. We recommend going 1-2 shades darker if you’re starting. You can always build on the color, but anything too dark will look muddy. 

The next thing you want to think about is the finish and shade. Bronzers range in pigment levels, so if you’re worried about it being too dark or heavy, opt for lightly pigmented. It’s also important to understand that bronzer is usually warm-toned, while contour is cool-toned. For redheads, it’s best to go with a bronzer that’s more neutral-warm. Opt for something with pink or peach undertones rather than anything too deep or orange; this will complement your skin better. No-shimmer or low-shimmer bronzers often look best on fair skin.

Application tips

When starting with bronzer, you want to have a light hand. Use a large fluffy brush to apply the bronzer to the high points of your face. Your cheekbones, forehead, nose, chin, and temples are good spots. Gently dust the bronzer and add more until you get your desired look. Be sure to check your bronzer in natural and artificial lighting to ensure you don’t have any lines or haven’t gone too dark. The amount of bronzer a fair-skinned redhead looks good will differ vastly from someone with darker skin. 

1. Choose the right shade

  • For Redheads: Opt for a bronzer with warm, golden, or peachy undertones rather than more excellent or overly dark shades. These colors complement red hair and fair skin without creating a stark contrast.
  • General Tip: To avoid an unnatural look, select a bronzer that is only a shade or two darker than your natural skin tone.

2. Apply sparingly

  • For Redheads: Since redheads often have fair skin, start with a small amount of bronzer. Too much product can overwhelm your natural coloring.
  • General Tip: Less is more. You can always add more if needed, but it’s harder to correct if you apply too much.

3. Focus on high points

  • For Redheads: Apply bronzer to areas where the sun naturally hits your face: the tops of your cheekbones, the bridge of your nose, and your forehead. This will give a natural sun-kissed glow.
  • General Tip: These high points are typically the areas that catch the light, enhancing the natural shape of your face.

4. Blend thoroughly

  • For Redheads: Blend the bronzer well into your skin to avoid harsh lines. This is especially important for redheads, as the contrast can be more noticeable.
  • General Tip: Use a fluffy brush or a makeup sponge to blend bronzer into your skin. Circular motions work best to diffuse the color evenly.

5. Build up gradually

  • For Redheads: Start with a light application and slowly build the color. This approach helps you achieve a natural-looking glow without overdoing it.
  • General Tip: Apply bronzer in layers, checking in natural light to ensure it blends seamlessly with your skin tone.

6. Check your lighting

  • For Redheads: Always check your makeup in natural light to ensure the bronzer looks natural and blends well with your complexion.
  • General Tip: Artificial lighting can sometimes distort makeup, so natural light is the best way to gauge your bronzer’s effect.

7. Consider a matte vs. shimmer formula

  • For Redheads: Matte bronzers often work better for fair skin, providing a more natural look. If you prefer shimmer, choose a subtle one to avoid overwhelming your delicate coloring.
  • General Tip: Matte bronzers are great for contouring and creating a natural tan, while shimmer bronzers add a luminous glow.

8. Adjust for different seasons

  • For Redheads: Due to natural tanning, you can use a slightly darker shade in the summer. In the winter, stick with lighter shades to match your paler complexion.
  • General Tip: Adjust the bronzer shade and intensity according to your seasonal skin tone to maintain a natural look year-round.

By following these tips, you can achieve a flattering and natural bronzed look that enhances your features beautifully.

Pairing bronzer with other makeup

Bronzer can add warmth and dimension to your face, but it might feel too much. Pair your bronzer with blush and highlight to help illuminate the face and balance it out. Soft bronzers can be worn with just a little makeup, but if you want to go full bronze, you’ll probably want to add something to your eyes and lips to help them look cohesive. 

3 bronzers for redheads

1. L’Oreal Paris Cosmetics True Match Lumi Bronze It Bronzer

L'Oreal Paris Cosmetics True Match Lumi Bronze It Bronzer: $18 

2. Physicians Formula Murumuru Butter Bronzer

Physicians Formula Murumuru Butter Bronzer: $15 

3. Benefit Hoola Lite Matte Powder Bronzer for Face

Benefit Hoola Lite Matte Powder Bronzer for Face: $36 

 

Rock it like a Redhead!

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How to Become A H2BAR Brand Ambassador & 101 of the Program

What's all the buzz about?! The H2BAR Program is explained here:

HEY, REDHEAD! 

You’ve probably heard that we have a NEW H2BAR Brand Ambassador Program. This is just one of the ways we are building a more extensive, better, more confident redhead community. Whether you just got accepted to the program or are interested in applying, we wanted to give you a breakdown of some of the things you might be wondering about

If you have not applied yet:

We want you to join the #REDHEADCLUB by becoming an H2BAR Brand Ambassador! Our exclusive community is dedicated to celebrating and empowering redheads worldwide. 

  • What is a Brand Ambassador? As an Ambassador to our vibrant lifestyle brand, you’ll rep the H2BAR brand and spread the word about the redhead community. You’ll have the opportunity to connect with fellow redheads, share your experiences, and promote our mission of embracing the uniqueness of being a redhead. Are you ready to join us in fostering a community that celebrates individuality, confidence, and all things redhead — while scoring free swag and cash along the way?! 
  • What does the acceptance process look like? To be a Brand Ambassador, you must be active on Instagram, TikTok, and/or Facebook and over the age of 18. We’re currently accepting applications from US & Canada residents! You must also answer a series of questions to ensure you’re qualified and ready to be an Ambassador.
  • What are the perks? Being an H2BAR Brand Ambassador comes with a ton of perks. Not only will you get FREE H2BAR product, earn a commission, and be the first to hear about new releases, but you’ll also be able to spread the word about H2BAR while earning points toward even MORE freebies! By being part of the program, you’ll make friends, learn redhead tips, and get inspired. It’s a great way to show your redhead pride and connect further with the redhead community. 

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APPLY NOW

I’m a Brand Ambassador for H2BAR! What now?

Congrats! We’re so excited to have you. 

  • STEP 1: Claim your welcome kit: You will receive a welcome email to walk you through the process. This email (and a few others) will help answer any questions about getting started. You will also gain access to your portal, where you will be able to connect with other redhead Brand Ambassadors, check out challenges and claim your FREE welcome kit:
  • STEP 2: Before your kit arrives, earn points immediately! Start earning points by participating in our “Evergreen Challenges.” Follow us on TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube. It’s also a great time to explore your portal to get comfortable with the setup. If you have any questions, ambassador@howtobearedhead.com is always at your fingertips for questions!

  • STEP 3: The welcome kit arrives. What’s inside?! You might be wondering what the kit is all about. It’s a welcome into the H2BAR community. See what’s inside:
  1. Welcome postcard: Our team handwrote your welcome card with your custom code. Keep a hold of the code to share across social media.
  2. Cards & marker: We included HEY, REDHEAD cards to pass out to other redheads! Write down your unique code on the cards. When you see a redhead, tell them about H2BAR and encourage them to use your code next time they shop with us.
  3. Free product: We included a free H2BAR product to help you get started and a HOW TO USE info card to scan and view tutorials from other redheads.
  4. Stickers: Rock the H2BAR logo on your water bottle, notebook, laptop, etc!
  • STEP 4: It’s time to tell the world you’re an H2BAR Brand Ambassador! Announce you’re an H2BAR Brand Ambassador and share your custom discount code with your audience. Remember, you’ll get 10% in commission for every sale! To get started, grab inspo from other H2BAR Brand Ambassadors. You will get 200 points per social outlet you post on.
  • STEP 5: Understand the program: We have created a custom program to keep you involved in the redhead community and also reward your efforts. There are two ways to get rewarded:

1. PARTICIPATE IN CHALLENGES, GET POINTS & $$ OFF: The more challenges you participate in, the more points you get, and the more you get rewarded. See this breakdown of $$ off each time you hit a new milestone.

2. CLIMB TIERS, FOR EACH SALE, GET COMMISSION + GET FREE PRODUCT : As other redheads use your code to purchase items, for every sale, you will climb tiers. Once you hit a milestone, the free gift will be sent to you automatically. See the breakdown below:

Other perks of the H2BAR Brand Ambassador Program:

H2BAR co-founders, Adrienne and Stephanie, wanted to create a space where the community could come together and have fun. There will be quarterly Zoom H2BAR Brand Ambassador parties, you’ll know about product releases before anyone else, and so much more. If you’re passionate about being a redhead, you’ve come to the right place.

Ready to get started?

Applying is easy and open to anyone who meets the H2BAR Brand Ambassador qualifications (even non-redheads who want to spread redhead pride!) All you have to do is apply on our website! Want to learn more, see the tiered rewards structure, and explore more FAQs? Click here!

Rock it like a Redhead!

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Ask a Redhead: Is It Bad to Dye Ginger Hair?

Have You Ever Dyed Your Red Hair?

Every week, we put out a call for your redhead questions. This gives you a chance to get advice or input from our team of redheads. From beauty and fashion to lifestyle, redheads are in a unique boat, and we want to help make this community a place where you can turn for all your redhead needs. 

This week, we’re answering an Instagram question: “Why is it bad to dye my hair if I am a ginger?” This is a question we get a lot in different forms. Many redheads are curious about dyeing their hair, but because it’s often frowned upon, there can be a lot of misconceptions. We’re here to clear them up and put your mind at ease once and for all!

Is it wrong to dye red hair? 

Let’s talk about what this redhead is asking. They have heard it’s terrible to dye red hair, but why? First, let’s start with dyeing hair as a whole. Using chemicals, especially bleach, on any hair will impact the hair’s health and the integrity of the strands. That said, it’s no worse for a redhead to use chemical dye than any other hair color. When people say it’s terrible to dye red hair, they often mean it’s frowned upon. Red hair is rare, with less than 2% of the population being natural redheads. When something is rare, people often find it taboo to change or eliminate it. 

Will dyed red hair grow back?

If you use permanent dye or bleach, your hair will not fade to its natural color. It will, however, grow back to its natural color from the root. So why do people say it won’t? Well, the most common reason is time. As we age, our hair changes and often fades or darkens depending on our genes. If a redhead dyes their hair for 5+ years and then tries to go back to their red roots, it might look different than it did before. This isn’t because of the dye; it’s because your hair has changed with age. 

Can you dye red hair?

Another question we often get when dyeing red hair is if it’s even possible. Many of you have probably heard that you can’t dye red hair or it won’t hold color. Here’s the truth…you can dye red hair! The process might look a little different than dyeing another hair color. Hair holds on to the red pigment, often meaning it takes more processing to cover up the red. For many redheads, when they dye their hair, it may still have a warm red hue.

Should redheads dye their hair?

Now, the question everyone wants to dispute. Should redheads dye their hair? We suggest redheads do whatever they want! We love to embrace our red hair, but we know that’s not the case for every redhead. Part of the redhead experience is learning to love your red hair on your terms. For some redheads, dyeing it makes you appreciate what your natural hair looks like. For others, dyeing their red hair is a way to enhance it through highlights, and for some redheads, they haven’t made it to a place in their redhead journey of embracing their hair color yet, and that’s okay! We’ll be here when you do!

Here’s a breakdown of the pros and cons for natural redheads considering dyeing their hair:

Pros:

1. Versatility in Style: Dyeing hair allows natural redheads to experiment with various colors and styles, allowing them to change their look frequently.

2. Enhances or Changes Shade: Dyeing can enhance the vibrancy or shift the tone to better match personal preferences for those who want to brighten or deepen their natural red.

3. Conceals Gray Hair: For redheads starting to see gray strands, dyeing can help cover these and maintain a youthful appearance.

4. Creative Expression: Changing hair color can be a form of self-expression and creativity, allowing individuals to showcase their personality through their hair.

5. Temporary Change: Redheads can enjoy new colors without committing long-term, with semi-permanent and temporary dyes, as these options fade over time.

Cons:

1. Hair Damage: Dyeing, especially with bleach or strong chemicals, can damage the hair’s structure and cause dryness, breakage, and overall damage.

2. Color Maintenance: Maintaining dyed hair often requires frequent touch-ups and unique hair care routines to keep the color vibrant and to manage root growth.

3. Unpredictable Results: Natural red hair can react unpredictably to dye, sometimes resulting in unexpected shades or uneven color outcomes.

4. Complexity of Removal: If you decide to revert to your natural color, removing hair dye can be challenging and might require several treatments or professional help.

5. Cost: Regular dyeing and upkeep can be costly, mainly if professional services are used, or high-quality products are required for maintenance.

Each person’s experience with dyeing their hair can vary based on their hair type, desired color, and overall hair health, so weighing these pros and cons can help make an informed decision.

Do you want your redhead question answered? Find us @howtobearedhead on Instagram and Facebook, and look for the Ask a Redhead question box!

Rock it like a Redhead!

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